visit each other's house. but the other mom won't let them do anything together. I wanted this woman out of my life and now she is but

should I apologize and pretend things were my fault for the sake of my daughter. the woman is not harmful or dangerous.

I would say that an apology is fine, but I wouldn't lie because I'm sure your daughter is watching to see what you do.

Can you approach her with an "agree to disagree"?

appeal to her with what's in the best interest of the gals?

I don't know. because at one point my husband had to tell her to stop contacting me.

this woman is completely unreasonable most of the time. my husband said he would call the dad and see if he could talk sense to him.

Maybe there just isn't any good ground with this "friend". It could be a good thing to let it pass...it sucks that your daughter and her

friend are caught in it but, sometimes there isn't a way to make things work...

that's kinda what I was thinking. at least they can see each other at school.

true, plus it may be ok for them not to be too close? In case the other mom tries to attach herself to your daughter?

sounds like attachment disorder

I am now an internet doctor! joking,I just knew a person who was dogged in their need to be around me and would freak if I didnt reciprocate

yeah, there are so many issues going on with the mother that I could write a book. she's not a healthy person but her daughter is a gem and

I adore her. oh well. it is what it is!

too true!

You know, you could call your mom and talk to her.....