even though I be the best in the end she will still have my daughter because its the law

How about you build yourself up first and prove that you're just as capable as her, if not more than capable, to provide for your daughter?

jacquielyne: I see, yun naman pala eh. Edi kaya naman siguro ni Nico na kunin ang daughter niya on that account.

yuh. 7 pa pwede mag-decide ung bata kung kanino sya sasama. pero alam ko, kung uber irresponsible and walang pang sustento ung nanay--

--pwede mapunta sa tatay ung custody nung bata.

lenuh: Yeah, that's what I'm trying to say.

kaso syempre katakot takot na debatehan sa korte yan. D: kasi kelangan lumabas na uber walang kwents the ina.

Yun lang talaga. Hay.

and thats why Im confused. I don't want it to traumatized my daughter.

nor want to keep them apart.

uhhh, para sa akin, hold on a little bit longer (till she reaches 7) ang tendency kasi pag pinakawalan mo sila, when she can choose--

--whomever she wants to be, since mom lang nya nakikita nya, dun siya pupunta.

the things I did wasn't because I wanted to, but because I instinctively they will be apart from me

I have choices but the one I choose is the one that will make your future better

and by choosing on that I gave up time and attention to them