but you can tell they have no clue or idea why they need to either put up or apologize

sorry just rambles from me

racist remarks often are used because you're out of rational arguments

racism is the refuge of the insecure idiot.

the person had no idea thier post was racist had to be privately told

Oh. A "teaching moment". If they're a grownup adult, and it's a first time, fine; more than that, I'd slap them. Hard. Very hard.

I m not a slaper but you will find out what I m talking about (top chef )

Aha... I'll check it out. Wasn't surprised by the boot tonight, though. He has always seemed out of his league.