all day and collecting money from the government to cover the cost of unemployment, injuries, and fatal diseases.

I want a job, I want a life. I don't want to lose him, and I won't lose him by having a job.

But, I will lose him if he continues to think we can survive with no home, no income, no friends, no life.

Because I will literally die.

a job can also steal a person's life. But it helps to have an aim.

what about his being a househusband?

Well, no income = no food. No food = me in a homicidal rage, + starving to death. When I am hungry, I get PISSED.

if you want a job etc and he wants to stay at home, why not do it that way? He can cook you dinner and keep the place clean.

We live separately, as we don't have the funds to move out. That's already stressful. I want a crappy 1-room apartment that smells like

feet and curry, so we can at least be together while we work and suffer. I even have enough for 2 months rent in my bank account. he's broke

and he wants a house. 2-story, finished basement, fenced-in-backyard, 2 dogs, 2 cats, an iguana, and a snake

and he calls ME immature, and says I can't handle reality.

ah.

looks like he has some learning to do.

how does he propose to get the house etc?

chrissayswhat, that sounds awfully unhealthy. You should be shopping for a replacement.

He sounds a tad unrealistic (this is me mincing words so as not to offend). I couldn't live that way.

I love him though, and maybe if I dip into the whole spousal abuse thing and give him a good wallop every time he says something retarded,

he MAY JUST get tired of being hit 354654635 times a day.

You can call him the biggest moron, it won't offend. But I really do love him. He KNOWS and admits that he's not the brightest crayon in the

box, but REALITY CHECK, dearie.

snail, the whole house idea? i don;t have a clue in the world.

i'll bring this up with him next time he goes on his "i'll never see you again" or "but we won't have time" rants.

asking questions can sometimes be the quickest way to get your point across. (Or to discover something unexpected, ya never know.)

not anymore. not after what just happened. DONE.

?!!

im done, dont worry anymore.