sounds like you have a bit of a sticky problem. Why don't you just tell each of them and let them work it out.

After an afternoon of back and forth... the older one said if the toddler is feeling better, she is going to come.

the other one will probably not come... hubby says... put the baby in a bedroom, let toddler be downstairs... no problem!

Who knows what will happen... Thanks KathyKlaus for your input.

I just hope everyone is feeling better by then. It is not fun when kids are sick for Christmas.

And I know Nona wants to be with both her little granddaughters!