(I'm going to copy and paste for organization and consistency purposes, thank you)
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Fredday was put temporarily on steroids, but will be off of them soon as they can cause fatal/major organ damage. Now he needs inhaler + meds
If you can't use GFM:
Support Xinda/Dani on Ko-fi! ❤️.Paypal: xindasnocturne[@]gmail[.]com
I did have a separate pinned post on Twitter, and I've yet any way of knowing proper GoFundMe Etiquette - do I create a new GFM for his medication/results or keep as is?
So I kept as is but am creating a new post with links and information (proof) of the original.
💜🌹🦋☆ 𝙓inda☆🦋🌹💜 (slow/behind/ia) (@XindaNobody) on X
Update that I made to the GFM: (6 images)
In the original pinned post you can see the struggles, the break downs, the proof of vet visit (also shown in the GFM), and everything that went along with it.
I don't know how long between steroids stopping will he start having asthma attacks again.
It caused him to vomit multiple times, and could sometimes last for seconds to at least a minute. Those are very scary moments.
Thank you for anyone who has shared the previous one, shares this one, and donates even a dollar to help Fredday.
Bonus: picture of him sleeping on my bed with me which he hadn't done in weeks...
(I had really hoped I could buy the inhaler separate and then go from there and at least get him training to learn to have something that size against his vet, but the shop said no. And every rec I got was to one of two places and this was the best option for what was had... Unless something tragic/large changes) I'm fairly upset by this.
I'm also upset that all the job hunting is turning out just as bust as it did for me 24 years ago. Nothing's changed.
And when my mom, a senior, is looking for daytime work... My bitterness and fears wonders how many are willing to even give her a shot. We have no more money to even successfully pay rent on time unless income comes in.
So I'm pleading for at least Fredday. At least HIS meds and needs can be taken care of.
We can ask our landlord to maybe take half our rent and wait or SOMETHING. But health? That's different.
No guarantee on either, but still...
I tend to get a lot of sc@m attempts when help is requested - and I see the same ppl attempt it to others, so I'm usually reluctant (they then [lie] claiming they don't work to start the sc@m)
For those sincere:
C@shApp: $TWbuffWin
Venm0: @/DaniW2
Thank you for every share and every dollar (or more) donated.
I'm keeping names. Track.
If I ever get to repay - or if you ask to pay it forward - that's what will happen if I'm ever blessed in the position to do so.
I'm also researching more work from home things that my various disability issues can handle. Thank you again. Truly.
Please continue to boost and share! The original plurk had around 100 shares & original twt had a little over 30 RTs (including mostly my own, but it still reached) - and with that it reached enough for the original 24 donations to reach the vet goal! Please keep sharing to try to reach the last bit!
I've been without proper access to
my laptop/internet, but got an amazing $40 between GFM & Ko-Fi! Thank you so much!! Looking for another $235 to buy the inhaler and min of meds that'll
hopefully last long enough to not have to ask for help again! (hopehopehope)
THANK YOU!
I'd say more, but I'm working on super broken sleep while kind of fading a bit atm, and need of sleep.
Thank you so much. (This message is posted on both twt and plurk. Thank you)
Fredday has chosen he has a lot of interest in playing and active more! Which is good!
Flipside, he wants less to do with what's left of the steroids (liquid mixed with food) and that's only extending the time between him without any medication.
I just. Really hope that nothing triggers actual attacks in the meanwhile and that him not taking his meds in full doesn't muck things up in the meanwhile.
Also: still no jobs for my mom. She can't drive at night and I would not be surprised if her age is/has/will play a factor in any hiring.
The one lead fell through after all the "yeah, they're hiring!" but then come to find out they only wanted evening shifts.
We will only have 1/3-1/2 of rent for July, so with this stress on Fredday, plus the job issue it's. Stressful. To put it lightly.
The only reason I'm even still posting anything is for Fredday's sake.
I'm sorry I take get how stressful it is
Fredday's out of the meds he was on. Refused to take most of it the last few times. Coughed a little today. We're still short $235.
🚨Haven't had any donations in a week, so we're still $235 away from reaching that goal!
🚨Fredday is now out of the meds he was taking as filler and had been fussy on it the past few days. Coughed a little today.
🚨No one is yet hiring, and we can't even make rent.
Please help.
sent a little, wishing you and your kitty and your family well
I'm sorry you're going through this
wisdombitch: Thank you so much!! I really, really appreciate it! So much ;; Thank you. Truly!
And I don't know who this all reached, but somehow we are only $100 away from the goal I set up to get his asthma meds and inhaler T_T!! Omg. Like the amount of freaking out and double checking I've been doing thinking I wasn't seeing it correctly T_T
Here's Fredday when he was demanding my mom's attention at her computer, so sat up on the desk and stared at her ;;
Still no luck on the job hunting, either. Applications are being filled out, but like... nothing. And most jobs in the area seem to want nurses or other such things, and it's like. She's not one, so.
3 days away and can't make rent either. So. It's just all Not Good. So these donations have been the highlight of touching and one of the only things that've given me any "hope" considering everything else... isn't.
I'm glad people are helping
Twt crosspost:
My birthday is in the first week of July - do y'all think you could help us reach the last $100 of the goal before hand?? So he can get an inhaler and asthma meds? Please share. Please help.
(this post will be crossposted, so I don't injure my wrists/arms)
IT'S DONE! PROVIDED NO EXTRA FEES OR SURPRISES OR SOMETHING TERRIBLE HAPPENS, GOAL HAS BEEN REACHED - I'M SO UNBELIEVABLY TOUCHED AND THANKFUL!!!!!!
komikbookgeek: It REALLY is!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE BOOSTING!
PBmajesty: I've CRIED and will cry again once it's received T_T
shesays_: I'm so shocked and just. THANK YOU
THANK YOU TO - WELL IT WAS PUT ANON SO I DON'T WANT TO PUT THEIR REAL NAME, BUT WHOEVER YOU ARE THAT KEPT DONATING, I THINK YOU'RE FROM PLURK, JUST THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE JUST KEPT REPEATING "THANK YOU, TELL THEM THANK YOU" OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
AND THANK YOU TO EVERY PERSON WHO REPLURKED, BUMPED, SHARED, DONATED EVEN THE $5. EVERYTHING ADDED UP TRULY
By the time the amount was made, it was July 4th (Holiday in the 'states) weekend, so things were closed and I wasn't sure if they would even get to talk to the vet or not in time.
I was able to order it, made it express to be 10 days instead of 20, was able to get the dose wanted, found the 'script, and now am
just waiting on the shop to contact the vet because it requires a 'script and the document I have has "VOID" all over it - and I don't have a scanner/fax machine to send it, soo. Here's the proof of my ordering, and now I'm just waiting for all the confirmation fun to happen.
I honestly have no idea how long this stuff normally takes for pets?
Nor in Canada to US, so... I just gotta hope it doesn't take long. Fredday's had a few coughs (like once every few days) and I've been anxiously waiting to get this sent out.
If it works, then I think I'll order the meat stick (like gogurt?) for cats as the treat/motivation to get Fredday to accept it.
I'm incredibly nervous, because I know for a while there's gonna be some waste of medication as he adapts...