so a few folks have messaged me and before I respond I poke through their reddit history. like you do.

first girl talks about how she wants me to "teach her" about being a nerd and a lesbian since she's newly out. quick peek at her reddit history says she's been posting about being into women for 8 years

bad vibes, passed

the second one is ... more interesting

the message was benign but her reddit history

well

I'm too old for this

damn dating is really horrible on all platforms now isn't it

that looks exhausting

speaking of too old I just got a message from a girl who is cute! lives in Seattle! history of talking about video games like stardew valley! all green flags+

... my friends she is 29

.... dammit

IT IS EXHAUSTING

I have 11 years on this lady I am wwway too old

I said my age in my op what was she thinking

I could have been her babysitter

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER?

NOT WHEN THAT NUMBER IS A WHOLEASS PRETEEN

a-at least she told me

why are these children coming for me where are the Elder Nerds