both Js! 11, 13, 15, 19!

wanna see the compare and contrast XD

11. love languages - giving, they're both hugely into acts of service, but J1 is more likely to have HUGE DRAMATIC GESTURES (potentially world-altering) whereas J2 is more likely to do quiet, intense labor trying to do something almost-invisibly useful

receiving, they both appreciate physical touch but J2 has a much higher need for words of affirmation

just....tell him you like him

or that you want to kill kujen for him. its the thought that counts

or make kujen throw a hissy fit and self-derail out of spite

incredibly hot

idk that he necessarily parsed that as an act of love for him as much as just proof of Eiffel's profound excellence as a person

but nevertheless

13: sharing/trading clothes - J2 is absolutely into it as a subset of his 'VALIDATE ME' which makes him love possessive gestures

with Hakkai it tends to show a lot more in wearing stuff Hakkai knitted for him, but I can absolutely see him stealing a hoodie from Eiffel or a blazer from john and mooching around in Very Little Else fishing for a reaction or batting his eyelashes like 'can i keep it?'

i feel like jedao has definitely stolen some of eiffel's nerd shirts after sex

100%

I feel like he wouldn't care THAT much about lovers in his everyday clothes but he does definitely kink on the idea of wrapping Hakkai up in a Fancy Space Silk Dressing Gown in Obnoxiously Shuos Colors

part of the kink is the front-tie access, however that's not all of it

I think for Jedao 1 it's a little more low-key but still present. just a warm fuzzy 'mine'

after wearing other people's bodies for years and also Fives wearing his sigil as a tattoo tho clothes is a little less impactful lmao

but he's happy to indulge it

15 - grooming/being groomed by someone else

they both looooove this, J1 a lot more...obtrusively?

let them brush your hair, let them wash you in the bath, let them touch and serve at the same timeee

and J1 is more in tune with his love of being groomed in the same way

whereas J2 is sort of like, Oh This Is Nice?

but also he's learning to do a little make-up so we'll see where that goes

19. flirting

they're both pretty flexible in terms of tailoring their approach when flirting with intent

Jedao One is more likely to try to make someone laugh with a wicked raunchy joke and flagrant eyebrow waggling, but J2 might do that if he were already comfortable and intimate with someone

they both focus a lot of attention on people, and they're both likely to use very very light touches and earnest compliments, and they both know how to use their voice

J1 is a lot more forward in general, still

they also both will, if possible, pass up an obvious double entendre while calling attention to the fact that the opportunity was there, we both see it, right - and then making another, different, more personalized and less rote double entendre

clever puns are sexy y/n

also they both know how to use the fact that they are genuinely very good at massage

Fuzzytale

Ooh, good going on the makeup, Jed'ika! Fives approves. (He still loves makeup and jewelry, and he still has that red dress Jean made/tailored for him)

also nails... him and Taura doing each others' nails and makeup when she visits, hanging out and prepping her for a fancy date with Jedao tricia868 XD

c u t e

Jedao 2: 2, 18

2 - he spoon versatile!!! everyone needs to be held sometimes

he likes giving that comfort and receiving it both

22, 23 & 25 J2, 1 for Kahl!

(which my auto correct was certain should be "Karl")

Frankie: 5, 12, 22!

18 - honestly very little flusters j2

he's shy but that's not the same thing

mostly it's when someone he didn't think liked him specifically says he's a good person

like Sheehan's regard got him a little fluttery

romantic stuff really doesn't do it; it's respect & ethics specifically

bc he's a nerd

blackletter

22. ideal date would depend on the dynamic of the partner, but I think he'd go crazy for like. an extremely ritzy Spa Date masquerading as a Nature Date where he got to be in hot springs under a natural sky and wash and pamper his date and explore a beautiful natural location but then also have lots of wild sex back in the yurt on a nice king mattress

but tbh if his persistent fantasy of Hanging Out Watching TV and then he gets his head pushed down and his partner pretends to keep watching the show while he blows them counts as a date, that's definitely up there

23. MANY things. he loves a blush!!! he loves Interesting Hair and light/colored eyes. there are lots of things he thinks are sexy or attractive but not necessarily cute

I do think he thinks a bit of soft tummy is extremely cute and good

25. crush....depends WILDLY on whether or not he thinks it is reciprocated

if yes, get ready for so much shameless flirting

if no, then he just wants to Be Around You and Do Things For You and Make You Happy with zero expectations

as an Unattainable Breach Ex, Arthur gets a weird mix of both

but most people are one or the other until he gets a clue

Asterisk, if he thinks it's reciprocated but the other person is shy, the flirting WILL be calibrated to a meticulously planned but probably fast seduction campaign, that may or may not break down partway through (Eiffel, Zerxus John)

and Astarion gets it less aggressively because he still trips some of Jedao's fears of Pushing Too Hard

1 for Kahl - he is like. genuinely a feral cat

he's so his father's son XD

what ???? is this ?????? maybe it's nice tho ????

he's only barely started initiating and only with certain people

and it's like. the 'middle schooler clueless bonk kiss' of cuddling. just throws his body on yours and maybe that'll work!!! (when he's in cat form it mostly does)

zerxus has to do ALL the cuddling work when he flops near him as a boy

tinwateringcan

arthur is similar with jedao tbh, it's like. Complicated (Positive)

Frankie, 5 - backrubs, I think she'd love to get one, has no particular skill or interest in giving them

12 - basic bitch lifetime movie rolling around in the sheets pillow fights is probably as far as it goes

violence is work and it's not even her strong suit

no thanks

cuuuuuute (tbh the fancy spa date would FULLY work on Hakkai)

22 - high brow/low brow - Fancy Expensive Dinner with Fancy Expensive Wine and then take her to the 1am empty movie theater to heckle some fun schlock together while blasted

omnomivore

it's the sensual pleasures + the feeling of superiority