Arthur appreciates Jedao's perspective a lot. like that he can step back and see the bigger picture and what actually matters in any sort of situation, or zoom in and focus on the smaller details
even if it comes across as overly justifying on occasion? in that like. his sense of duty feels to arthur like it overrides his sense of... idk, self? that the job and the duty come before his own needs
and arthur who has literally survived on knowing when he has to and can put himself first gets unreasonably pissy about it without realising that's why
Eiffel really appreciated that Jedao was respectful of his limits and panicky moments? even knowing it comes from a place of severe trauma it still meant the world to him that he knew if he said stop Jedao would, so it gave him a lot of confidence in their sex life
and even in their general friendship! it was nice knowing jedao had faith in him without berating eiffel for the same flaws that spurred most of his actually functional ideas