love existing as a queer, trans dude with his poc husband at a predominantly white, right wing holiday party hosted by my parents.

oof

that sounds fucking exhausting

most of these people I've known since I was a baby too so despite my name change since 2016, I still get dead named and misgendered constantly.

jesus, I'm sorry

I am ready to correct people or tell them I'm sorry they don't think my Jesus doesn't love me but that doesn't sound very Christ-like to me so maybe keep your mouth shut. it's a holiday party.

i'm glad your husband is with you but man. Can you just, like. Drop in for 20 minutes, say hello and leave?

naw. I go for my mom, really.

it's like. 3 hours. I can survive. I've been doing it for 8 years now like this.

and were going to he in the bay for Christmas. I think it would really hurt her if I didn't come.

oof. Good luck.

I feel this. Just got done with my right wing family party today. Godspeed, Ian

hurgh

good luck, much love

thanks friends, party just started, we were helping mom prep food and I was just running around.

Hey friend. Saddest fistbump of solidarity. Three hours!

the three hours started an hour ago unfortunately

and my brother and SIL is here pretending I don't exist.

fun.

jokes on you I bought your son an amazing Christmas gift and mom is gonna give it to him because I'm a good uncle

bigoted ass and two-faced, gonna lean on the trans community and then be a fucking transphobic bitch.

I might rant about this in another plurk later. God. every time I see them I just get so fucking angry >> it's easy to let it go when they aren't around.

also it's so fucking obvious that Greg can't even look at me any more.

and hasn't for years. hilarious. love you too buddy. sorry I disappointed you but hating Me doesn't make God happy, sorry to tell you dude.

enjoy your bitter life while I'm living my best, sir.

were gonna do white elephant and then we can disappear.

home. we dipped early. but it was still about 3 hours.

fuck my brother and his wife. that's all I'm gonna say. gonna play some Diablo with David.

killing things with a big bear man makes it a little better

I'm sorry you had to deal with their bullshit. glad you escaped a little early and hope you and David can unwind together.

he got me from level 6 to level 40 so my new character is catching up xD

Fun! I have an ice sorceress

uuugh I'm sorry

I'm so sorry