most any ?

suggests checking codie's timeline; she's asked all of the bold questions

just curious about people's boundaries...she tries not to kiss and tell herself, which of course is boring for everyone else!

believe me, codie has asked EVERY sex question you could imagine

and what's more surprising... EVERYBODY seems to respond to Codie's questions

though some (like um, me) evasively.

I would say I am kinda open about such matters, in general and on plurk.

if I think I have something useful to add to the discussion or if the question is relevant to me.

she will need to follow Codie's questions closely to infer boundaries. Maybe one boundary people have is not talking about boundaries!