可以給一份翻譯嗎

是cousin吧?

難怪= ="

你的cousin好...

不要難過~這方面的開導是很困難的!或許他真的該多向你看齊

How old is he or she?

Don’t be so sad. I think you need more patience or better ways to make him consecrate on his studies.

After all, the more you try hard to convince him, the more chance he will obedient to you.