I thinks so.. kasi malalim ka na magisip, nagmamature yung isip mo. nagggrow ka..

why do people need to grow up? for whom? for what?

hindi naman siguro sya need kasi it's a process.. parang natural yun sa tao.

what's wrong with being simple-minded? why would you not laugh at something you used to laugh at two years ago?

define deep nga muna. haha.. kasi pwede ka naman maging deep sa ibang bagay. at maging simple minded sa ibang bagay..

what im talking about are those people who have changed how they perceived and react on things. Hindi naman sila ganun dati.

HAHA. oo, gets.

i find it difficult tuloy to talk to them. you know them.

hindi ko din alam kung bakit eh. at bakit patang ang superior ng tingin pag deep ka..

*parang

are they deep? are we shallow? or are they going blind and cant see the world they used to live in?

believes that no people are deep nor shallow. just those who think much and those happy people. HAHA. kebs ko kung gano mo pinagisipan.

intellectuals eh?

eh sa huli, it's just the same ol' world. you and i are DOTS in the Earth and superiority will not make you any bigger

HEAR HEAR!

yes. worldly wisdom that will get them nowhere.

non sequitur. Being deep doesn't mean maturity. "Deepness" is a state of mind, it's a way of perceiving things. Maturity is something else.

hmm about 'these' people who changed. And about the difficulty in talking to them again, I dunno maybe your 'new' perception of them

preempted your judgment. It really boils down to understanding (e.g. misunderstanding). I dunno. I'm not making sense okay. But, oh well.

intellectuals? Who? Technically, lahat ng nasa college level ay tinuturing na intellectuals. Although I forgot the sociologist who said that

so if it's about intellectuality or acting like intellectuals, maybe they were just *unconsciously* living up to the society's expectations

I really wish somebody would contradict me or something if they find something erroneous in what I said

Sa tingin ko, kapag nagbabago ang views ng isang tao, hindi kaakibat nun ang pagtataas nya sa sarili nya, o ang pagbaba ng tingin nya sa iba

Depende din kasi kung paano mo makikita ang pagbabago ng pananaw ng isang tao eh.

So people who don't usually think, are happy people? Someone answer me haha. Ignorance is bliss nga ba? Or is it just the lame man's excuse?

deepness comes with maturity.

Then that's the answer to your question diba?

Pero that's entirely contradictory sa flow at exchange nyo ng thought ni Debie.

it is hard to talk to them because basically, one cant see even a hint of what they used to be.

yes but i have another question. do we have to grow up? it is easy to say yes. but think again.

Bakit naman? Say for example, nakilala mo ko nung first year HS, do you think I am the same nung 5 years old ako? Inevitable ang change..

..however small that change is. Yun lang.

nope. not like that naman. (tae nakokonyo ako, kill ME!!)

Yes. We have to grow up. We need to. Do you think growing up never did you any good?

small changes. but some people really came from a very major turn-over. and again, they are strangers. it's sad.

what's YOUR definition of growing up?

It's really hard to tell.But what I'm sure of is that had I not grown up, then I wouldn't be ready to face what the world's giving me today.

if whatever the world's giving you today is given to you when you are in your first year hs, cant you handle it?

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Honestly, I can't.

unconsciously living up to society's expectations, that person told me she's a anti-conformist

my answer to the last question is not

who? There aren't any proper nouns here.

Sino yung 'she'? Btw, simply put, growing up made me think more, and thus, I think I made better decisions.

so that the subjects would be narrowed down

Basically, people have to grow because progress entails growth. And I believe this 'growth' is inevitable, people just don't 'grow' at the

same rate

this is quite a discussion and if we talk in general, there might be more confusion. so let's narrow it down to us.

Who's 'she'? Haha sorry di ko na nasundan. -_-

this is a disputable matter so am wating my time. but it's okay

okay. I think I'm the biggest 'waster' here LOL. I changed, I really changed I can say that. But I like who I am now. Not that there's some

big changes. The thing is, I changed so there'll be some misconceptions if people from hs e.g. took me seriously. Haha.

So growing up, hmm. People don't 'mature' at the same rate. This is self explanatory anyway. Point is. People change. And some people don't

understand. LOL

Yes some people just don't understand. Really.

i agree you decided to change your perspective and for what? help me understand. do you think you know more now?

and when you talk with people who know less, do you get irritated?

so you think you understand better?

No definitely not, I don't even consider myself mature. Like hello. Changing perspectives did not really come out of deliberate decisions.

It's more of realizing things, IMO. Understanding better, nope. Because it depends. What I'm trying to do is to tackle a subject objectively

NO! HAHAHAHA! I don't get irritated when I talk people who know less, it's enriching & exciting & funny actually.

why is it funny?

because it's entertaining, i.e. only if both sides realize new things.

Haha sali lang ako, I am changed din. Pero I can't say mature na ko. I still have a long way to go. Nung una, I found it surprising why

..people don't seem to change in the same rate as I do, pero I soon realized na ganun talaga. Iba iba talaga tayo.

I think medyo nagiging personal na tone mo, Tenten. No offense though, but what are you getting at, really? Enlighten me.

/thinks this is a personal matter. HAHAHA

what make you think

so?

hmm.

pragmatics maybe

to thank Johnine for making him Google the word pragmatics.

LOL Mikhail

haha. buti na lang kaka-share lang yan nung classmate ko sa vocab per meeting namin sa Geog1

Yes I bet something's being implied here. Try to read yung mga post sa taas.

dont bet. Let me just say it's both of you plus other people. wala naman akong grudge or something.

i dont give a damn on how you guys make your life. Just want to ask some questions to somehow understand your side

Do you share the same sentiments with the other side? I mean, you mentioned 'our' side, then there must be another side.

what sides? WTF. Sides?!

anyway I got lost, maybe 'side' doesn't mean group