how so?

it just does everything is about casual......romance is dead

im such a cynic these days

I know what you mean, but disagree, II think the romance just becomes hidden in the casual-ness !

It''s not so much being a cynic, rather being realistic. Rather crushing. People I know who partake in casualness around me really get on

my nerves attitude-wise.

it just seems pretty pointless to me...like my housemate was seeing a guy from uni..and they said from the start that it was casual and they

could be with other people...as expected this failed drastically

so anyway big drama....over...now they're seeing each other again...but no other people are involved

yet she's still scared to ask him what they are incase he freaks out thinking he's in a relationship...like wtf?!

what is the difference

why don't boys want to do the whole sweeping girls off their feet anymore?

It's not all of us, but a lot of blokes feel it's all a bit of fun, like scoring points.

Barney over here is a prime example, although he's broken up with his girlfriend he is still seeing her for sex and other women.

Not long ago, he had 4 in a week including her. Then he got in a whole pickle because one was seriously developing feelings for him and

he had to break up with her even though they weren't together, reducing her to tears, he had to shout at her to get her to stop following

him, then the next thing he said to me was he had someone else in line that night. What's more, he keeps trying to give me his "cast offs"

He can do what he likes because at the end of uni, he's practically got a guarantee with his ex to get back together.

I know people say the women must want it too but, come on, mostly because they think thats the only way they will get a guy. It's really up

to the guy to be a better man. But why should they.

Rant over.