the chicks that are around all the time, talk to your guy, and say very few words to you even when you are nothing but kind.

responding as I'm curious to see the replies you get and want to be able to easily find the post.

always wanted to shake some sense into her man when it is oh so clear to me but he is blinded by the attention.

good friendship in SL but that's it. Having said that, I was once confronted by someone who'd be told I might be after her man.

me too thats why i am asking

all worked out well in the end as I count her as a friend now too but it did make me quite uncomfortable.

Sometimes, when people tell people openly and in public that they adore you/your partner they actually mean it sincerely... & platonically

found her worries to be right on target each and every time

I guess so... like in RL. In this case I hadn't had any opportunity to meet the male avatars partner - and when she confronted me,

I initially laughed, thinking she was just joking... then I realised otherwise.

fortunately we talked and resolved this privately. I'm not sure I understand SL relationships that are separate to RL. But hearing about

them intrigues me. I am not good at compartmentalisation which is why I stick to friendship only.

waiting to see this girlie self destruct... but i feel so bad seeing a guy I care about looking like an idiot.

moggsoceanlane and I are having a convo here

if we can label profiles with a scarlet letter.

labels. I'd rather get a few odd shocks and just take people as they come

joking

knows. I always bite... can't help it... even when I know I'm being baited... but my bites are more often than not for the fun of it.

I agree with both of ya! and just for that specific reason I go out of my way to be friendly to the female he is with.

Perhaps even talking to her more.. so she knows I am not interested in more than friendship with him and that I want to be her friend too!

any female that shys away from chatting with you or such like that and speaks only to your man is out for only one thing.

if you see them together? Or your man/woman get quiet for long periods of time - most can't multitask lol

nat is so right!

guys? Do you have this experience or are females the only ones who like to disrespect established relationships?

Not sure if I can answer that as I have only had one serious SL relationship so far. I just try to be friends with everyone M or F.

had a few women try to be far too close to her hubby, luckily my hubby is not blind and he also will be the first to tell them off lol

notes - no wonder we're still married eh?

intuition is a powerful think

thing even LOL

yep, I'm never wrong

if they only want conversation with your boyfriend and want him to keep secrets from You

giggles

when one woman wore silks without the "panty" layer around her her husband I kind of got the feeling she was after him.

OOps I mean she did that around *my* husband

lmao

is there a panty layer to silks?

well - it was a camisk (sp?) style Gor outfit. I considered it those silks especially since it was very silky and sheer.

grins and hands Tymmerie the rum. JerremyDarwin's turn to drive tonight!