always double check who the receipient of a private message is before sending a PM of a sexual nature

just to make sure you are sending it to the CORRECT person

hope it wasn't too bad...

will gladly check to make sure it was bad or not

I have worried about doing that myself

oh no!

the content was basically trying to fgure out how to get DH to be a little rougher in bed, and DH being worried about hurting me

that's why they have "safe words"

I told him that, but her worries that I won't realize it is a *bad* hurt until it is too late