i'm having problems with my roomie, who is actually my good fren...
i can tolerate e living differences.. like she doesnt wanna clean e room, so nvm i clean
she does things very slowly, so im always waiting for her to sleep to bathe to go out to everything
but i cannot tolerate it when she throws tantrums
esp when it's cos of idol stuff ohmygawd
see right, e fansign (autograph session) system here is by lucky draw
she likes cnblue, so we went to buy 10 cnblue albums and filled in her name
for a sat event, lucky draw results would be announced on fri night, 1130pm. sun event, sat night 1130pm.
but she didnt read e instructions properly and she checked on sat morning 1130am for a sun event
so obviously her name wasnt on e list. and she started her tantrums. saying nonsense like she want to throw away all cnblue related stuff
since e event she wanted to go was sunday, she should have chked e list on SAT night
aiya anyways, she threw her tantrum and i left e room to let her be.
and den on sunday night, i dunno why she hand itchy, she went to click e website again and she saw her name in e list
ehh nono not on sunday night. she checked it on monday afternoon
so e event was over. and she kicked up a damn big fuss again. saying she wants to FUCKING QUIT SCH.
she already paid for 2 semesters of study, so she threw a tantrum saying she wants to get a refund for e next sem's sch fees (impossible)
and she started banging stuff on e table and talking to me very rudely. WAH LAU I REALLY ALMOST SLAPPED HER.
and again i left e room to roam e streets alone. just so i dont have to face her nonsense.
my frens in s'pore ask me to try and understand her cos she is like that, a bit emo and always very 極端
in s'pore when she's like that, she'll disappear from our social circle for 2 days and den she will be fine
but now im staying with her leh. how can i ignore this person who sits less den 30cm away from me???
i cant uds and dont wish to uds. to me, i feel she's old enough to handle disappointment and little setbacks like these
come on, it's freaking idol related only leh. it's not like something worrying happened at home so it affects your mood
ARGH. so this issue really irks me and i realise i started to pick on her in little ways (in my heart la, i dont actually pick on her).
and it's like a poison spreading u know? like everything is spiralling out of control. i dont want to hang out with her
i dont want to stay in e room everyday with her.. it's bad leh
i need an angel antidote potion to make me holy and nice
my parents and willy are supportive of me to move out of e hostel to look for a single room & dey will pay e difference in amt
but my roomie will kill me if i do that cos she wants to save money!
oh gosh, sounds bad. she sounds a little childish, and noel u r too kind. I wouldn't even consider those events as setbacks lor
nt like she lost an arm or leg for it. have u tried talking to her about it? will it help?
use emotional blackmail,like if she doesn't stop her nonsense u will consider moving out.
gosh she's so lucky to have met u. I would've committed murder I think.
she really childish leh omg !!! I can't imagine happening at this age Liao !
ur tolerance level really high ah
but like tat it's really difficult to be frens mah... u are there to study and if she is really affecting u badly u hv to think fir urself
cos I feel her priority is idol stuffs instead of study
jus tell her it's affecting u and perhaps u r more suitable for a single room... tat time when I go hkg training also like tat so I told my
room mate I prefer to stay alone so we folk out a Amt each so we can be more comfortable mahz
dat is so childish.hw can u tahan like that if it goes on. ya give her an ultimatium.she dun change u move out.
all i can say is, moey, you are such a nice girl!