just listen to your heart

um...

can you be more specific?

There's a difference between talking about marriage and planning it.

If you're looking for marriage you should be honest and bring it up right from the start - talk about it...

The planning part comes later on when the time is right, like PG said.

well i usually move like a turtle, but this relationship i am in now is progressing rather quickly

the funny thing is that its okay this time

its just completely out of character for me

All you can do is be careful, and make sure you know how you really feel...

Make sure you're not just rushing into something because you feel pressured - even if the pressure is from yourself.

if it feels right in your heart then it can't be wrong

that's just from my experience though - that's how I ended up living with ketchup girl

i dont necessarily think thats true pg

plus i have to be EXTRA careful b/c we both have kids

well for my wifey and I it was 3 months, but we we didn't get married for nearly 2 years (1 year 9 months, 0 days to be precise)

There's a situation where you'll 2 different things from 2 different people..

A child couselor would tell you what you just said.

But a psychologist that you were seeing would tell you you have to keep the kids in mind, but do what's best for you.

both are right, but the two views don't usually play nice with each other.

my mom rushed into the marriage that she is in now very quickly and it was very hard on my brother and i

i wouldnt want aaron to feel the way i did

plus this guy thinks im so great and i really am just pretty ordinary

i think he needs to get to know more about me lol

if you're happy your kids will follow

me and david didn't. i hated barry for a long time

passiongirl the real problem is when things don't work out.

course i wouldnt stand for any man treating my son disrespectfully like mom did

maybe thats were part of the difference lies?

maybe.

just do it....don't regret learn from your mistakes and be happy with yourself

i will eventually, but i just wondered if anyone else thought that 6wks was too so 2 mention it??