I'm about to?

whatcha need to know

Me & lots of it...from first hand experience & working several years for a lawyer

Wondering about visitation. My daughters dad will be out of town for spring break , but said she has to go spend time with his wife.

Seems to me I should not have to send her if he wont be there...his wife is awfully mean to my daughter and they dont get along.

isn't visitation for the parents to see the kids? Not random spouses to see the kid? Staying with his wife seems not kosher.

Especially wicked step moms.

I do. Check your custody documents. In some cases there is a clause that if the parent is not around for longer than a ...

determined period of time the other parent has the first option to watch the child. If not, then suggest trading a time with him...

when he's home?

btw, i didn't realize this plurk is from...December?!

sorry! hope it all worked out.