Maybe she wants you to swipe her?

No, she gets angry with me when I get too close to her so I try to stay out of her way. But I was here first and I just woke up to find her

next to me. I like my spot so I'm just going to turn my back on her. Hopefully that'll be enough to keep me from getting smacked.

if you've talked to the big cats about this.

this sounds like bullying behaviour.

very familiar with bullying behaviour.

She can be a bully. They know about it and they stop her when they see her, but they're not always around.

it's very difficult to deal with this kind of behaviour.

At least she's asleep right now so everything's alright.

you should fight back when it happens.

when in doubt: swipe back. Or lick her. She might get so disgusted SHE leaves and not want to be around you again

good advice SweetIrishPea.

I'm not a fighter I'm a cuddler, Arbieroo. The good news is that I'm also smaller than she is so I can get places she can't

found most of the time fighting makes things worse. He used to get in to a lot of fights with the other MCs and they just weren't very …

happy about that. Now it's mostly cuddles. Though sometimes I don't want cuddles, I want to go on adventures.

Feels the same way. To be fair she has mellowed out. She used to be really uppity but she's not anymore.

if she had a rough early life.

She doesn't like to talk about before she came to live with the big cats, but I think she did.

it sounds like it.