Oh shit, what happened?

You should've seen the look on my face when my dad was telling me stories of my mom's behavior omfg

I called him earlier. Complained about how mom was treating me and Bruce and her paranoia of everything ever

And he essentially verified that no, I'm not just imagining things. Mom is crazy

she being a dick to you and Bruce??

Dad said back in '94 he was gonna hang out with coworkers one evening. To make sure my mom wouldn't get any weird ideas (since he was the only married one in the group), he brought a few coworkers home

In a nutshell yes. /continues story on slow mobile lol

so that mom would know who he'd be hanging out with. Mom got all passive aggressive pissy in crit

in front of them.* Stomped around the house. Cranky as shit.

And then she tore up all of their wedding photos

I now know why my parents have like less than a dozen photos

What the shit

MY EXACT REACTION

She also took his job photo ID badge and stabbed his eyes and face out

Can't remember if that was connected to wedding photo incident or another one

More recent example. I think my mom was the reason a basement renter didn't stay as long as I was told she would

Mary-Lou was a Filipino lady around the same age as my parents. She was watching a movie with my dad and a family friend in the basement theatre just chilling

Mom stomps downstairs and confronts Mary all like

"ARENT YOU ASHAMED OF YOURSELF FOR WATCHING A MOVIE WITH TWO MEN???" Jesus wtf

Overreacting PLUS implying/accusing horrible things

Wow wtf

She implied shit by questioning my dad when Mary lived downstairs. Tl;dr cheating paranoia

This is similar to her always thinking that I'm an alcoholic and that Bruce is abusive

I remember her wondering why I wasn't scared of being alone in Bruce's house with only his dad around

Read: aren't you afraid of Bruce's dad raping you

She beats around the bush and never says things like that outright so I knew she was thinking it

Oh and this week my mom asked my sister about getting a rape whistle Sis relayed to me the conversation

....

I'd like to say that I'm surprised by this news, but I'm really not.

Yeahhhhh

wow and i used to think your mom was pretty normal

SO. After easin

Yeah most people think she's just a socially awkward mouse/wallflower. My dad has never told anyone about the problems at home

After hearing the wedding photo story I had this horrified epiphany: my mo

Goddamn mobile. My sister gets her psychotic behavior from my mom. Part of it has to be hereditary

Sis had/has her own temper tantrums. When we were kids she would wreck my room, delete game saves, pour jars of salt in my hair

thank you for not being crazy ange

In her teens she would stab my cakes full of holes

how is living with her going? are things okay?

I hope to god I'm not as crazy as them. Bruce teased me earlier and I thought he was serious so I was close to tears LOL

Living with mom ranges from Barely Tolerable with Apathy to Frustratingly Miserable. Half a month through and we started spending as little time there as possible

Been living at Bruce's parents house on the weekends. Some weekdays now too

Sis is okay when she's not being a lazy ungrateful bitch

Bruce has helped me realize Melissa doesn't treat me like a sister - more like an acquaintance with occasional uses

We only talk or spend time together when she wants something. Mall escort, driver, complaining/venting.

Oh BACK TO MY MOM she never talks to Bruce. She always uses me as some sort of channel/message boy. Even when he's in the same room

>mom complains about chores >Bruce: do you want me to do it? >mom: I was telling Angelica >Bruce:

If she wants Bruce to fix/do something she'll yell at me about it

If she wants Bruce to not bring "strangers" to the house she complains to me and says "but don't tell him I said anything"

Etc etc /drowns in sea of frustration

Wow I. Can see why your dad wanted a divorce.

And why he was away from home so much.

It's all making so much sense the more my dad shares with me. I really hope he talks to Melissa soon. Hoping she's as open-minded as me.

There's nothing holding my parents together now that their kids are growing up and sort of have their own lives now

Dad said there was no communication whatsoever between him and mom after the first few years of marriage; they only ever talked about us kids. Mom is permanently rooted in the past/her own ways and

refuses to change.

Yo mudda so crazy when she jump fo joy

She doesn't actually jump. Or do anythin for joy. In fact she's fills with a passive aggressive murderous rage.

Filled**

Lol it's true...