you also need good people who know you who can endorse you to those who might be interested in kissing you, that you'd be interested in kissing back. Networking, baby! It's good for kissing too.
There are clubs for that, man. They're called "friends". I know. It's a bit old fashioned, traditional, but it's by far the best way to go about finding that person who wants to kiss you as much as you do them.