So I've discovered something about myself. I'm very good at playing controlling, kinky semes o.o Not CRUEL but...yeah. First it was Roy Mustang. Now I'm adding Irwin Smith to the list.
Well that's why it's handled with safewords, information, and always making sure there's consent. Don't have to lie to the uke about anything, but if its their first taste it might become what they prefer.
Roy is good about Safe Words. But Irwin's world.... Nothing like that is codified and he rather discovered this...preference through happenstance and necessity.