oh! I saw that video before!

yeah, I thought of that video when he brought up that line

nice guys don't finish last though.........................

nor are they always friendzoned.............

but if you call your nice and complain that you don't get rewarded(???) for it then that's kinda self-centered....

Ikr? I like what the man said at the end: You're supposed to be nice to people. You don't get a cookie for doing something that you should be doing anyway!

Thomas actually defended this line saying by saying, "well, nice guys do finish last because what if you open a door for everybody and you enter the door last?"

I know that Thomas does have good intentions sometimes, but a lot of times we can tell he's trying to act that way to get us to see him in a different light. And I think that's not nice at all. >:

XD Pfft-well I think that's actually quite clever of him to say. But it kinda goes around the point.

but you won't always enter last because there's bound to be someone still waiting for you / puts others before them

THERE'S A LOT OF DIFF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD K

boyfriend said that he got friendzoned a lot but he didn't explicitly say that he was a nice guy LOL he just told me that girls only thought of him as a good friend...

so i guess he's an example of someone who gets friendzoned often but still got into a relationship?????

-cheers for him- Yayyy~~~ : D

He conquered~ And was a good friend too~

SO IF HE CAN DO IT THOMAS CAN TOO

there was actually an article I read a while back on why nice guys don't finish last and this is my favorite part from it:

just stop complaining about it

great guys lololol

I was actually hoping whatever I said to him last month would actually have him take things into consideration...

instead he just ignores me

oh well

btw is he actually sick rn?

(Sorry for the late reply I was showering. o

o; )* But um, I'm not sure... I don't think he'd feign sickness. :l If he did, then I'd think much less of him-as I think he'd be smarter than that...

He ignores me too-he's always been that stubborn.
- . - I don't like to give up when I'm adamant on something, but when it comes to him... nearly a lost cause. ; - ;

So I really just hope that time will fix him. >:

yeah, I wouldn't think he would skip school for that many days.

I hope Thomas knows that even though I said the things I said, I would still like to be friends with him.

and I hope he knows that I truly did feel guilty about the things that I said. The minute that I finished speaking I just felt bad but I only had hope in mind.

hope that he would take some things in consideration

:T I hope he does-but I can feel the awkward in the air still...
It may have been quite bad-but you know, I think it's okay. I think you've been putting up with him a lot.

on Monday I told Huy to tell Thomas that like...it's okay to say hi to me, I won't be angry at him if he talks to me.

But Huy didn't tell him that...

because he didn't see him Monday after school and a few days after that...

A Great Big World & Christina Aguilera - Say Somethi...

this song is probably like me and Thomas

"say something I'm giving up on you. I'm sorry that I couldn't get through to you"

>: Perhaps you'll have to remind him again.

maybe...

I dunno, I was just going to tell Thomas myself but then I realized that you know...he'll probably be confused

he'll probably think "okay, she's angry when I talk to her but she's angry when I don't talk to her"

>: Then I guess you guys just gotta talk it out-explain your dislikes to him so he could understand I guess?

It's not easy though-I know that. = A =

I tried my best to explain why and then he just sort of defended himself and sort of tried to doge the topic with a joke

Yeah, I know you've tried before-somehow it just needs to happen. >: I wish he would listen. - A -

he seems okay when he talks to you guys but then when I come in he just looks depressed

or like, if I'm with Anne and Grace, he'll say hi to them but he'll keep his head down and look sad because I'm there...

Yeah, I've noticed that-not sure if he's actually sad or trying to guilt-trip you. -sigh-

if he's trying to guilt trip me then I hope he knows that it isn't working

because I've been feeling guilty from the start

I can't say that you shouldn't feel that way, since you do I suppose; but I feel that's just not right! D:

I don't want this to turn into a Thomas and Sharon thing-it's just not healthy for the group.

yeah, it really isn't. but I do feel like our group was kind of broken ever since the beginning of the year

everyone seems busy with clubs

Yeah... I wonder if this is normal for Junior years.