she gave me some passive aggressive shit reply like "it must be hard to be working" which translates to a threat to cut my hours. wtf

That sounds like shit my boss does, it's really frustrating and uncomfortable and unprofessional.

I'm guessing this is at your older job? Any chance you'll be able to get enough hours at the new one that you won't have to stay there for long?

No unfortunately I think I'll need both unless the promise of management goes through at Which Wich. the 2nd in command, Mary, had a death in the fam last week so the energy at work is super hostile now

Deb is going unchecked and theres no one to make her follow the rules really.

but there is an unspoken rule that if you ever complain about your hours or whine that you dont want to be there [like if they force you to work a double] then your hours get cut

I just need Mary to get back soon