because I'm am a cruel heartless bitch NO ACTUALLY

that's ok that is me also HELLO you have not been on plorp in awhile

I have not! which is silly. hello I am back.

HELLO KATE MONSTER

HELLO KALAMANDER

anyway I am going to dump this guy because when he wanted to have sex on the fourth date and I told him I wasn't emotionally there yet

and that it takes me a significant chunk of time to be emotionally and physically intimate with someone, his response wasn't "ok I respect that your comfort levels are different from mine" but

"life's too short not to have sex!"

Wow definitely dump him

(Hi Kate )

"I thought you liked me, I usually have to be the one to tell women no they're all over me"

HAHAHAHAH that's a lie

"i just worry that if you need that much time, you'll never have the time to make that connection with anybody what with your job moving you around so much"

and "we have a connection, so if you're not going to be intimate with me, then who?"

Did he just... concern-troll you to try and get sex out of you?

lol yup

Please tell me you laughed in his face at the line about ladies being all over him

which is hilarious because in the rate I'm going, I'm likely to get stationed at continental US land units for 3, 4 years at a time.

also good job implying that I will never have a more meaningful romantic connection with anyone than the one I have with you, guy I've known like two months.

at the time I was all uncomfortable but yeah I thought it through and this just ain't gonna work.

Sounds like he thinks he has a magic cock or something

someone who felt a real connection with me would be willing to wait or discuss open relationship options.

oh don't they all?

...true

Go Kate goooooo you do your thing and let the haters hate