only for them to then wait and choose the night before I have work early in the morning

And I'm like 'okay well if it's just an early meal or something that's fine I would be home with plenty of time'

but no

they want to go drinking

and I'm sorry but no I am a big wuss that needs sleep, and needs time to actually fall asleep, and I'm not going out to drink and then sitting there waiting for someone to be sober again to drive me back home

nope nope nope

Wow, how inconsiderate. :\

That's seems rude for not thinking about those who have to work early. hugs