I have those a lot. It feels uncomfortable every time. I don't think they mean anything in particular.

in the dream we apparently slept with each other as a birthday gift even if we had SOs? And we'd done it once before an ti was rather nice

but I've only ever considered that friend in a sexual way in passing (the sort of "if she asked I'd be game" kinda thought) and so this feels very out in left field

Well, put it this way. I, at least, have never had s sex dream that I expected. The occurrence and partner that my brain supplies are a surprise every time.

like a private porno roulette

Hahaha indeed.

All of my sex dreams don't involve me at all. It's always other people.

The only dreams I have about myself are usually like... disturbingly romcom-like

//throws glitter// asexuality