This is not the first time I have gone to that Church or the first time she has distributed. It didn't work, but it sure interrupted my concentration.

mention it to the priest

JlovesR: I may try but they seem pretty close and it seems like she is the "favored" one from what I have witnessed

sueh: your rights and your peace were violated. You can simply mention it kindly and ask him to please remind her how to do things.

I would have gone straight to Father after mass, our priest is very respectful, although I don't think he would have a EM who behaves like that. We know have an altar boy with paten even in the choir

loft because so many people receive on tongue. And we are an OF parish. but he has but four kneelers up in front for those who want to kneel now! and all masses are Ad Orientum.

Cardinal Arenzie, when prefect of the CDW, specifically stated that EMHCs who do that are in the wrong. You might have to dig to find the clip, but I don't think the EMHC or Father can claim the Cardinal

lacked the authority to make such a statement.