and I was just outraged lmao
and confused, because... if you’re so broke that you have to take any con that’s near you, you probably shouldn’t be doing AA in the first place, it’s not a job for the financially unstable
but if you’re fine with supporting these garbage humans because you Absolutely Need To Sell At This Con then fuck you honestly
yeah like, it fucking suuucks that AM is as big as it is and is able to get the guests it does
there's a few lolitas who do similar things except it's more like "but the guests!!" and willfully turn a blind eye to how shitty The Leighs have treated the Houston comm
even a mod stepped in to shut down the thread agreeing with “not having the luxury of choosing cons”
it’s such a stupid argument, it’s not like AM is the only con in the entire state and if you’re there for AA you’re not there for guests (usually, bc you are... running your table) so you’re just ignoring the problem and giving money to terrible people
there’s really no excuse, selecting cons is not a “luxury” and that’s the most horseshit thing I’ve heard in quite a while
the reach on that to avoid admitting you're supporting an all-but-proven creep and fraud is actually impressive
and again if you’re so broke that you can’t afford to NOT give money to a sexual predator then maybe go look for another job bc AA is not how you make good money anyway
"It wasn't as bad as it sounded" THERE ARE
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GOOGLE THIS GUY
she then goes on to argue about how google isn't a legitimate source and she only trusts verified background checks
let us not trust the victims here
if you only believe that someone is a sexual predator or an actual scam artist after they're in some database I don't even know what to say lmao
her argument about "what about the manager at your local McDs" sucks
'you best be trying to impeach the US president' are... are you kidding me rn, how is that germane to aa decisions
like if I found out the manager at my local McDs was a creepshow with screenshot receipts I'd. stop fucking going to that McDs. hello
I didn't cap it but somebody below that was like "whataboutism isn't relevant here"
it's a good thing that girl is based in houston bc I'd sure as hell be avoiding her table and telling other people to do the same if she were based in CA
"it's violence against women"
there was one person who was aggressively agreeing and then the mod who sided with them and locked the entire post
I also feel like it wouldn't be that beyond people's capabilities to sorta try and "profit" off this situation, too, if you were an artist who goes to AM
"HEY I'm not supporting AM anymore because <this shit>, so I've set up an online shop since I won't go to the convention! Please spread this for me!!"
like, there is theoretically a way to make a small turn off this, if you actually "need" AM in order to pay your bills
yeah, exactly, it's not hard to avoid a convention but if you don't stop attending cons run by shit people with shit business practices because your business "doesn't discriminate based on allegations of the practices of the owners" or whatever, I'm going to assume you support what those shit people are doing, period
yeah i just shook my head at everyone there
Yeah, no one "needs" to go to the con. If you're obsessed w/the guests, at the very least you should see if you can successfuly borrow someone else's badge to see them and not give the con itself money. Not usually in favor of outright malicious fraud but if it's that important to you, find a work around.
And posting on the "won't be in AM AA because con owners are shitlords, please support me this principled boycott hurts my bottom line" is the way to go
Might even get you some business you wouldn't otherwise get from out of area folks who appreciate what you're doing.
But AA is very few people's Day Job / Main Support for good reason.
I have heard that even ghosting the con is a bad idea because AM uses the warm body count method
their attendance numbers have always been inflated bc of that
but yeah like frankly the people who can afford to do AA full time are like. plush artists and other 3D artists who can justify charging an arm and a leg for their products lmao
it's just such a crappy, reaching argument. we ALL have bills to pay, AA is never NOT expensive, and there's no good justification for continuing to support a shitty organization run by shitty people
plus the inherently victim-blame-y "I don't trust google search results" lol
"I'm not a warm body, I'm 5 raccoons in a trench coat."
that victim blamey part is really the worst part of the whole con tbh
(also i heard its not even worth it sales wise so why defend it????)
bc she's got bills to pay, obviously