I know...

"Old" But at least you can always connect with her

My son got my “old” iPhone 8

that seems young to get a phone. Our boys didn’t get one until at least 15.

Yeah. Lots of her friends have them. Coupled with after school activities and field trips

I think I got my first one at 10 or so, and that was still after the other kids and we didn't even go anywhere! I think it's a good idea

Kids live on their phones these days. They don’t call; they snapchat and instagram and who knows what else, but the absolutely live on them.

To be fair I live on my phone a bunch. But technically it is work . Yeah going to limit her time on it (if we can)

I’m not being critical at all. I have two kids and I’m just making the observation that it’s more or less the way in which kids interact outside of school these days