Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Real Talk, JustyK : Would you consider someone saying <insert fetish here> is disgusting is equal to 'kinkshaming'? Because I interpret it as someone just going, "ew." whereas I hear 'kinkshaming' more as "EW You're into <insert fetish here>?? You sick disgusting pervo you should be shot." or something like that.
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Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Ah geez.. That's a difficult one. I mean the subject of sex in itself is already taboo.
Lucy Heartfilia is
6 years ago
it? :-o
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
It's certainly not someting you talk about over Thanksgiving dinner
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Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Well ... no, unless you're REALLY open about things, but yeah, I wouldn't consider it family conversation, more something private-none-of-yhour-business topic, rather than taboo. :-D
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Oh I used the wrong word then, that was what I meant.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
i mean, nowadays, it seems like it's more widely discussed? I think
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Oh LOL
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
yeah I think taboo is more severe 'it is FORBIDDEN to speak or think about' thinkgs
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
But, certain kinks/fetishes are considered taboo.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
So it's like.. When you say 'ew' to them, you may as well be saying 'ew, you're into that'.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
So to answer your question, 'It depends.'.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Yeah - I feel like we had this or a similar conversation befoer too :-D But yeah, my bet isa lot of people will use the "DON'T KINKSHAME ME' excuse as a way to just censore people
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
I think so but I don't remember what lead to it. But chances are if someone is using it online they're already socially awkward.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
It really is none of our business that you're into feet dude.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Just because ONE time when I was like 10 months old I thought my feet looked funny...
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Oh. You were talking hypothetically
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
NO- Yes
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
XDD
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Yep, you're right, it's none of our business. Though I will cut ties if I ever run into someone who is into some gross kink n.n Like your obsession with Vanilla Coke, ew.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
It's only saved because you like BBQ chicken pizza, which is pretty banging, so you get to stay.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
WOW
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Don't COKESHAME ME
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
YOU HAVE A PROBLEM JUSTY
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
I am ridiculously curious what brought this question on but at the same time I am deathly afraid of TMI
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Well yes I do, but it has nothing to do with Vanilla Coke. :/
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
XDD
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Anyway it came up because I was looking at DnD quotes, and there was one where someone mentioned they had a scat feish nudist dwarf bard character, and I was like. "EEEEEEEEEEEEW. WTF."
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
........ what
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
yeeeeeah
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
That can't be real.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Oh but it is
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
There is no way. How are those 'traits' in any way relevant to D and D
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Ok I could see nudist; granted I'd think of a sprite or something but there is a smidge of a connection.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Yyyyyyyyyyeah. It's just someone wanting to play a character with gross feitshes for lols c.c God help us if they're into that irL.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Like. I can't even fathom how that ever even became a thing in reality
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
shaking my head
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Though speaking if campaigns, how's yours rolling along? :-o
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Pretty good! We obviously skipped a weekend because MOther's Day, but so far we've been having fun :-D Like poor Anita's nat 1 climbing that ladder that I mentioned to you before. XDD

Have things lightened up for you by any chance? :-o
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
I'm afraid things are only going to get worse before they get better. :/
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
The short version is that our team leader, who was supposed to retire in June, was forced to retire in March.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
So we're trying to run this place without the knowledge he didn't get a chance to pass on to us.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
Oh shit. D: Why did they force to retire the dude? D:
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
The higher ups believed he was being paid to do nothing.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
facepalms At least it wasn't two days before retirement. But still thats lame.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Well, he actually wanted to stay until 2020 but things got complicated. He convinced them to let him stay until June then for whatever reason they changed their mind.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
It's really obnoxious.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
That sucks it pretty muchs screws you guys over. I mean at least let the guy pass on what he knows before retiring him D:
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Coincidentally he was the guy that got me the job in the first place so it hit pretty hard. And yeah, exactly, but it also showed they really thought he wasn't doing anything. Which is absurd.
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
That sucks :-(
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
Anyway yeah we're dealing with the domino effect right now. I'm not really certain when I'll be free just yet.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
But when they do I'll let you know.
Judge-It Justy
6 years ago
When I do
Lucy Heartfilia
6 years ago
HUGS okay n.n Hang in there till then!
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