.... u... ... u weren't already.... .... i see...

so, update: i'm agender and i'm also a lesbian and those words cannot just be simmered down to just 'i like women now'

... I MEAN CONGRATS

MY DEAR FRIEND

LMAO HEY

are they/them pronouns still the preferred?

listen i briefly hit on it then i was like. no. let's pretend to be more than aesthetically attracted to cis men for six more years

oh yes of course

ok ok good i assumed but wanted to not assume

nah dude i'd rather you ask than assume

I MEAN i've BEEN out as agender but yeah like

i dunno. i feel freed. i feel good

i also feel mildly tipsy but I came out before I drank so i'm still valid

me: i've felt shitty for years because i'm a lesbian but i feel like i can't say it
therapist: have you tried......saying it
me: ...................i'm glad my insurance is paying you and not me

but yeah here's what i tweeted on the matter

i'm glad you settled on something that makes you feel comfortable!!

thank you!!!!! it's entirely possible that five years from now I'll pick some other word the kids came up with, then try to act like I invented it

(I'm kidding, but also, who knows?? not I)

(I'm only 29, I'm young, I've accepted that my sexuality is a carnival ride with an indeterminate end point)

whatever makes you happy, my friend

Congrats!!! It’s always a good feeling when you find something that really clicks with you (I say also recently coming to identify as a non binary lesbian whaddup)

But also I think that it’s like, exactly what you said too. I know that’s helped me come to terms with my gender identity and my sexuality because hey, maybe This Is It and maybe it’s not and it’ll change into something else down the line, that happens!

Shit like five years ago I thought I was a cis lesbian and Welp, but it’s helped so much to know the above and also have other people out here saying ‘it’s okay to explore who you are’ and that you aren’t bad if that potentially changes. I mean questioning is a part of the LGBTQ+ after all

But yeah like, from one nb lesbian to another you also aren’t alone! And I’m glad it’s also working out for you