That's really not okay.

What excuse does he give for this?

He says that I am crazy and off my meds. His justification? I found out his girlfriend wanted to hurt me to get rid of me so she could have him to herself. I called the cops. She lied to him and told him she was suicidal. So he has based all his bad behavior on a lie.

At this point he’s being vindictive and trying to punish me. Keeping a child from the other parent pisses judges off. I hope that we get a judge who will put him through the wringer.

Yep.