aka feelings are awful and mess y

i’m gonna give u this preemptively

Thank you Margot

So I started sleeping with this guy that I have been friends with for awhile. He started developing feelings for me and I really liked him, but I held off on starting a relationship with him because I had feelings for someone else and wasn't telling him the whole truth

Last night the girls who is the other person that I have feelings confessed to having a crush on me. I don't want to lose this guy friend, because he is great

but he more feels like what I should want, which also comes with stability, but she is who I really want to be with

Go with your heart, but within reason. Consider where you may be with each person in five years from now, use that to decide which would be the healthiest and most fulfilling option, and always know that “neither” is a perfectly good option

So after some thinking, I am absolutely completely hopelessly in love with her