Just ended a super long relationship with a close best friend over this bs and I'm done.

Said person attacked one of my other friends (a Black friend) over standing up for herself and putting her foot down on shit and that was the breaking point. For all the while said friend was doing her best to prove she wasn't racist she crossed a line-

and it sucks

I know deep down she isn't usually this shitty. but here we are. Even when I pulled her aside and asked her "is she okay?" because I've noticed alot of weird dips in her behavior atm she flipped out.

I wanted to be understanding and maybe suggest for her to get off social media for a while because she's not going to escape this but instead she flipped out and got really nasty about things

"How dare you say this I've don't so much for you etc etc." like hey... I would say whatever you've done for me I've repaid you back tonnes of times when I could so don't even go there.

So that's it, it's done with and I now have a migraine from crying really hard over this.

/hugs tight

it's never fun when a friendship gets destroyed over something like that

just...it feels like a really personal kind of thing

Yeah, the shitty thing is we both ended on our friendship on the thing that brought us together

That really sucks....

I mean from the sounds of things I'm dealing with this way better than she is since I've had people telling me she isn't doing well, which just shows there are cracks under her mask, I'm sure she knows she's in the wrong here but doesn't want to admit it.

She's just super salty as hell because it's me her best friend/big sister figure told her off big time and she's not coping with that very well at all. Though alot of people are saying good riddence and that I did the right thing in this situation.

It feels weird... Like I'm not as upset as I am about it but I need the time to cool down and her other best friend messaged me saying that she needs to calm her fuckin' tits over the whole thing.