Her residence isn't allowing gatherings or funerals right now for obvious reasons, so the kids all decided when they were there after the original stroke to hold off on a burial
already called Karla and told her and Kathryn, they've been incredibly understanding and supportive through this whole thing and she's immediately putting me on bereavement leave
I'd gotten to accepting it in the days after the initial news came, when we were all waiting, but knowing it's coming doesn't make it hurt any less when it happens