so people praised the plot development as ~realistic representation~ and thought it was ~so brave~ that yrsillar was willing to write his protag as a heterosexual woman
ling qi avoiding her and being grossed out and all of that other stuff was actually p homophobic even though they made up later, and it never actually examined any of that,
just ling qi like "maybe we both should be a little bit better" and it's like.... ling qi you were a whole hell of a lot worse after that went down, they do not compare,