Playing BG3 gave me a galaxy brain connect-the-dots moment where i realised i always romance the exact same 'damaged boner for justice' guy in all RPGs
Like, I'll go to mat and defend the rich, interesting nuance of your Garruses, your Anderses, your Wylls but i won't defend my completely incidental decision to ALWAYS romance that one
(look I will also go to the mat defending Anders but I would not in a million years romance him in DA2, even if Isabela wasn't right there) (DA:A is another story he is ANNOYINGLY my character type in that one)