thinking abt how the other day i was already flustered form how busy it was at work and a customer takes me aback and goes "sorry before i say anything you have short hair and a male name but your face is pretty like a girls wh. which are you" and i just sputtered out "oh uhh im a guy" bcs i didnt know what else to say to that
its worse that i had to effectively close myself off and tried to ignore everyone in my system bcs i felt afraid of talking to anyone abt it after my ex called me crazy the only time i spoke up