honest to what we feel. that is an expression of subjectivity. yet, also consider the other's needs.
要覺得即使只有自己一個人也可以活下去。即使是親如父母或愛人,妳自己的問題她們還是無法解決。不要存著依賴的心理。要自己面對。(glory)
use your strength to cope with the other without exposing the shortages too much. be brave and be clear.
consider your position as both a limit and a resource. be clear of what you have and do have. then explore that.
哎其實我的生活一點都不風花雪月但老是在寫一些風花雪月的事情。
我忘記可以發私噗這件事了。。。被干擾的噗友們抱歉~