I really hate one-upsmanship when talking about how shitty things are with other people. "yeah well my shits worse than that". WHO CARES?
Things are shitty for nearly everyone these days. fucking shut up and deal.
I get peeved when people let it turn into a contest like that. Tell your story if you want, but don't compare!
One girl on Rav tried to one-up my friend (whose parents BOTH have battled cancer this year) whining about car probs. UGH.
That's the stupidest thing ever....